I'm so impressed with a friend of mine today. I had a very interesting conversation with him today. Firstly he is being honest with me on few things which I believed some of my close friends don't even dare to say it out loud. The truth can be mean but I have to learn how to accept it. (No worries babe, points taken, no hard feelings, thank you for being honest with me & I'll try my best to improve. Anyhow sometimes you can be so annoying & for a guy, you talk too much... hahahaha)
Secondly, he's so faithful to his girlfriend who is currently staying in XXXX. They are having a long distance relationship & it has been going on for quite a while. He has no doubt in her at all. He's so trusting. I asked him - nape tak suh GF cari keje kat KL je? He said he doesn't want to force the gf. Biar dia decide on what she wants to do with her life. He can only pray & believe in god's will. He's really a good man & so patience. I'm really impressed with him.
Frankly speaking, I'm so skeptical in a long distance relationship, I don't trust in a long distance relationship at all. Being surrounded with many so-called "unfaithful" & "unable-to-keep-their-promises" friends, it doesn't help to restore my faith in a long distance relationship. I've seen many long distance relationships ended on a bad note. Cheaters, liars & all in between, you just name it .But after listening to what he said, I might have changed my mind on that.
Fis, u made us look bad. Look, each relationship is different. Do u honestly think i really want to cheat on my ex? Even sometimes the relationship dah lama pun, but if you realised it is going nowhere, you have the right to find the right soulmate. You can't just expect me to hang on to it just because I've made that promise?
ReplyDeleteYour friend here maybe bit lucky than me. Maybe he feels his relationship is going the right direction but not everybody is as lucky as him. I just hope his girlfriend appreciate him as much as he appreciates her.
Di I am so agree with u. In a relationship, it must be two way communications. Both parties must make the effort to ensure the relationship lasts. I wont blame your fren if he falls for other girl later. The gf imo, doesnt seem too interested in the relationship
ReplyDeletedidi - apa ko tulis tu betul. i dun blame u man. i'm just impressed wif ths guy as he's so loyal. x ramai ada guy yg mcm ni.
ReplyDeleterina - u r bad. ko x knal d girl & simply je ko buat tht conclusion.
Fis, c'mon. As a girl, do you really want to be a way from your boy? Doesnt she miss him? Why not find a job in KL so that she can be nearer to him? Relationship is more than phone calls & texting. It's the action & emotions. Again this is my opinion only
ReplyDeleteof coz la aku nk dkt dgn bf aku (if i hv one.. hehehe) but sometimes we hv no choice. ingat senang nk cari keje kat kl ke now? quoting frm wht my fren said, bila dh kawin pun, we nvr know in d future kita kena b apart - kena posting different states for eg. if they can survive d r/ship this way now, no prob for them in d future.
ReplyDeleteMaybe. Maybe it cld be the other way around. Datang KL, break up cause can't stand one another. I'm your living example. Dont you learned anythg from us? We are not bad people. We just want to find happiness in our lives. Good luck to your fren who ever he is. Hope she is worth it.
ReplyDeleteGirl, this is a very subjective matter. Agreed with Didi. Not saying cheating is right but things happened for its own mysterious reasons. it's all in god's will. Soal jodoh pertemuan semua terletak di tangan Allah. Some are lucky enough that their first gf/bf are truely becoming their life time partner but some might have to go through a very painful process to find theirs. Yes, it's hard to find this kind of guy anymore but some people cheat because they really want to cheat, some have to cheat as they had to. Whatever it is, segala urusan termasuk soal jodoh pertemuan, we leave it all to Allah - surah al-mukmin: ayat 44.
ReplyDeleteTu dia. Finally the big giant has spoken. Lets thgs out of yr chest my man? Why r we discussing on ths. Not an interesting topic to discuss anyway. Musabahah diri je baca ths entry.
ReplyDeleteBecause we are annoying people who love to pick on Fisz. She will freak up when she sees many comments once i posted this link on my MySpace wall
ReplyDeleteshe's talking abt long distance r/s not on cheaters/liars.
ReplyDeleteY want 2 discuss abt it? It hits rite on the nose?
No. We juz love to pick on her coz we r annoying people
ReplyDeleteso Fisz, does ths mean tht u r ready for a r/s?
ReplyDeleteDo not know when she will answer your question. She won't logon to her blog or FB during office hour.
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